We can wait for no man or woman to change.
We cannot enforce change whatsoever upon any person who is simply not willing.
We can only aide from a distance ...
... because some of the most important lessons in life are learned alone.
When you don't have a support system, anyone to catch you as you are falling, or anyone to pull you out of the ditch you have fallen into - you are forced to rely on yourself.
You are forced be strong.
Your willpower increases.
You enter survival mode.
Your perception changes.
Ultimately, you grow mentally and spiritually.
Any wounds sustained can now fully heal properly.
... but only if YOU want to - your WHY has to be greater than your WANT!